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As parents, our job is ever changing as our kids grow and change. We have struggled through our kids’ teenage years, but we have always tried our best. And when things get really tough, we are not afraid to ask for help. This week, we learned a new parenting tool, that, at least for now, seems to be pretty effective.

In a tough situation, it was suggested we treat the nearly adult child with love and respect and appeal to the child’s innate intelligence. We saw that as a good approach, but were still a bit unsure how to proceed. Our tutor had us come up with a plan that used the “I think, I feel, I need” approach. We asked our child each of these questions and we too in turn went over the statements from our own perspective. Though the conversation could have become volatile very quickly, our teenager told us it was greatly appreciated that we treated the situation as an adult and that we offered love and support.

While I doubt we are completely through with every detail of our tough times, I know that this approach is working for us right now. And that seems to be about all any parent of any teenager can ask for!

My husband and I had a nice little vacation last week, just the two of us. It was a much needed get away. Today, when I came across the website for a Costa Rica resort, I wanted to take a look. As the site began loading its gorgeous photographs, my husband walked in. He took one look and asked if I was planning our next trip!

The Florblanca looks like a lovely destination. The photos of the sea and surrounding beaches look truly inviting. The villas look like a place I would never want to leave! The open area overlooking the jungle hosts a two person hammock just right for relaxing together and enjoying the sights and sounds. The bathroom looks like an amazing garden area. The Honeymoon House offers personal beach access and a complete kitchen. Rates start at $350 and the current special states when staying four nights, the fifth night is free.

Activities include lovely beaches, walking and jogging trails, cycling, yoga, fishing, swimming pool and what looks like the ultimate in luxurious relaxation. Though I did not see it listed, it looks like it would be a gorgeous place for scuba diving as well.